As you may or may not know, my husband and I are in the process of cleansing our bodies in preparation for our first baby. It isn’t a concept that is unfamiliar to me, I’ve been helping my clients do this for quite some time now and I am so thrilled that this practice of conscious conception is finally gaining more popularity with both couples struggling with infertility as well as first time parents who aren’t yet trying to conceive like my husband and I. And while I strongly, passionately and fully believe with every cell of my being that what we eat before we conceive has a dramatic effect on our future children, so does what we eat during pregnancy.
But what about when it is time to birth this beautiful being into the world? A time of empowerment for the mother, a time of beauty and a rite of passage. A large part of me almost dreads this moment. Fear from movies and TV shows like ‘One Born Every Minute’, ‘A Baby Story’, ‘Bringing Home Baby’ and even ‘Didn’t Know I was Pregnant’ bring fear of the birthing process into my heart and the hearts of other women like me. I don’t want my baby forced out of my body via suction or taken from me before I get to hold him or her for the first time missing out on that time of connection and love. I don’t want to be wearing a hospital gown as if I am sick because that’s ridiculous! You aren’t sick, you are pregnant – if anything being pregnant is the most glorious, empowering time in a woman’s life -a time when we are at our strongest to ensure the health of the baby growing inside of us, no?
‘The Business of Being Born’ was the catalyst for my growth as a woman. It opened my eyes and woke some primal piece of me deep within, that is very hard to explain. I’ve seen the movie probably a handful of times now and each time I come away better, more equipped, more passionate about sharing this information with other women and their partners. It is about awareness, understanding of our female bodies, our strength. It helped me to discern what is right for me and although I don’t have it all figured out – I have an idea now of what direction looks best for my husband and I as we take this next step together.
Watch the trailer above and tell me what you think. You can also view the entire movie on YOUtube or Netflix- please do and let’s discuss. I fully believe it is time to take our power back and research choices perfect for each of our unique situations. I’ll be sharing so much more here about my journey. I will be bringing midwives, doctors and doulas in to participate in this conversation over the coming months as well. Join me on Twitter to continue the conversation!
Much Love & Conscious Conception!! xoxo
