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Could You Drop Your Story? What if You Decided You Were Enough? My Client Did…

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This week one of my beautiful clients had the a-ha moment of her life.

She shared with me:

‘This morning on my drive to work I had a sheer moment of clarity: I am the only ME there is, so there is no such thing as right or wrong… I cannot be right or wrong about something, I cannot do right or wrong, I cannot be bad… I can only be authentic or not authentic. It takes away all reason to compare myself to anyone or anything… because I am the ONLY me there is! You don’t compare apples to oranges, that doesn’t even make sense.

I am the only ME there is! It brought tears to my eyes this morning, it made me laugh out loud!!! Because it feels really, really good to be me and to have the power over my thoughts and my life. I said… holy shit, I think that means I love myself. DOH!!

I want to give you the biggest hug ever for supporting me and holding my hand, Eliza. Feeling more amazing than I have in a long, long time. Words cannot express the gratitude I feel for you, and for ME for choosing to honor myself and take this journey into myself. What an absolute honor.”

THIS is what a shift looks like.

It doesn’t have to take decades or years or months, in fact this particular lovely and I have worked together coaching for a grand total of 90 minutes so far!

It shows you what can happen when you’re ready and willing to put in just a little bit of time focusing on that super important person in your life {if you’re new around here – that’s YOU}.

It can be hard but it doesn’t have to be.

To make shifts from how you are feeling to how you’d like to feel you need to trust. I can’t underscore enough how important I feel it is to look at where you are and honor that place – whether you want to hang out there or not, because it’s your truth. Running from it only puts shame and blame on you and, well, that sucks.

The point of this is never to make you feel bad. Never. Never. Ever.

You want to be wiggling and stretching and moving toward what feels awesome to you each day. If it’s a small step in loving your body and appreciating your beauty or if it’s having a hard conversation. You can rest your head on the pillow at night knowing, with a full heart that you gave it your best shot. You met people with love. You conquered the mirror with confidence. You spoke up and turned down the party invite. You said yes to the date even though you’re really, really scared!

I’d like you to visualize where you are right now and everything you’re going through. What’s the hard stuff that’s happening with you right now? And where are the gems? What are the delicious slices of fun and beauty and greatness that are in your life because you’ve been working hard to buff those rocks into diamonds?

{Next week I’m going to have a guided visualization for you to try to help you explore the journey. Make sure you’re on the newsletter list to get that!}

Can you take a step back and smile because you’ve been doing it? You’re still breathing and you haven’t given up and it matters to you. You matter to the world! Your ideas are important to the people in your universe. And there will only ever be one YOU. One perfect, beautiful you. So how do you want to build your bridge today that will take you from where you are to where you desire to be.

Share with me in the comments below, what you’re feeling up against and what movement you can take to feel ease, fun or just overall a sense of feeling better – a sigh of relief. Your voice wants to be heard. Get that support you’re needing today. The celebration you’re deserving and the hand holding you’re feeling ready for. I want you to reach out rather than holding it in. Share what’s coming up for you. So many times I’ve been supported by the reflections of what other women are sharing. Let your voice carry the way for another woman today.

YOU are the best thing that’s ever happened to you,


PS… I’m looking for 2 more fierce and fabulous women to take the next leap with me. If you’re curious, or know you’d like to play some more with me email me: Eliza@peaceonmyplate.com and lets set up your free Clarity Activation Session.

I’m holding that space for you if you’d like to see what you’re moving toward next. If you’d like to take this journey with me and play on the other side of the road where ease is the new ‘hustle’ email me and I’d be glad to support you in creating fun and joy and coming home to who you really are.